- Abusers can do nice things for people they are not abusing.
- Abusers can do nice things for people that they are abusing.
- Abusers can otherwise seem like nice, caring, supportive people when they are not actively abusing someone.
- It does not mean they’re not fucking abusers.
The fact that they are sometimes nice does not inherently mean that their abuse should be forgiven or forgotten, either.
I tried so hard not to start writing this poem about cannibalism
you would not believe how hard I tried